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My two y/o Biological father was in and out of his life and the last year he was in jail, i left him for mental and physocal abuse and cheating with several women .. i met someone who is wonderful to me and my son and now were having a daughter.. In my ex's absence my son called my now boyfriend 'dada' seemed out of nowhere because i never told him to or encouraged it however i domt know if my boyfriend did it , but he swears ge didnt.. Now my son is rekindled with his real dad who is making some real efforts to change himself and the relationship he has with me and his son, its a great thing! But now i feel a sense of guiilt because my son is confused .. Hes a very smart 2 yo if i do say so myself , should i let him sort this out and call them what he wants or redirect what he has been calling his stepdad..
Another thing, my current bf us very jealous and hateful towards my ex which i understand but its all so old and in the last for me we fight constantly when my son sees his real dad, he doesnt want to talk with him to work it out and he only gets more angry when we try to talk about it.. Advice??