Amber - posted on 12/30/2010 ( 16 moms have responded )
In case you haven't read my other post let me fill you in.
My dad has brain cancer and we don't see him making it much longer. We have already made the arrangements and we are just waiting for him to pass. It's breaking my heart. He is home with us and we are taking care of him so she sees him sick.
My question is will her seeing him sick have long term effects? Will she be tramatized? And Do you think its a good idea for her to go to the funeral or has she already had to much?
She is 19mths. I'm so confused she was extremely close to my dad and loved him SO much. Her father is not in her life so my dad was kind of her "dad" because she didn't know any different. She loves him so much and I don't know what to do.
Please just someone tell me what you think would be a good idea...I just don't want my girlie to be haunted by this...Thank you!