too soon??

Hannah - posted on 09/09/2012 ( 5 moms have responded )

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Me and my boyfriend have been friends for over a year. We have been dating for 4 months and he is really good to me and my son does that seem to short of time to get engaged?

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Hannah - posted on 09/09/2012

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I guess it just depends on the person i was engaged to my sons father for 21/2 years we were together for a year before that and i must say im very glad i didn't get married to him because i obviously had no idea who he was...

Dove - posted on 09/09/2012

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In my opinion it's way too soon, but then again... I knew my ex for about a year before we got married and it was the biggest mistake of my life, so.... I'm not exactly a neutral person to ask. ;)

Hannah - posted on 09/09/2012

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Well actually we don't want to wait till next year and the thing is i have never really believed in marriage but we have been friends for over a year we know each other very well. His parents actually got married 4 months after being together and they have been married for 25 years. Still happy he wants to get married in the fall and falls almost here we cant do it in christmas or thanksgiving and feb is to cold summer to hot and we want a halloween themed. So thats why we are shooting for october. 31

User - posted on 09/09/2012

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That's almost exactly the same timescale that my husband and I were together for before we got engaged. We didn't get married for 2 and a half years. It worked out really well for us.

Vicki - posted on 09/09/2012

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I think its fine as long as you are not in a hurry to actually get married! Take your time four months isnt a whole lot of time to know somebody

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