Trouble in marriage

Chasity - posted on 09/09/2012 ( 1 mom has responded )




I am having issues in my marriage I only been married for 2 years and already want out of it. I don't feel appreciated I feel ran down from being to a wife, taking care of 3 boys, sports and going to school. I am trying so hard to maintain and be that wife that God wants us to be ibut its getting harder each day. It just seem like my husband has a attitude everyday he don't respond to me like a husband should I don't know if I am asking too much from him or what. I just want to be surprised sometimes and feel like a wife we really don't have a friendship like most married couples do I don't know what to do can somebody please hekp me I have tried talking to him he get all defensive like he in denial about it but I am not. and I forgot I don't have time for myself at all it feels like I am going to bust. I just want to throw in the towel sometimes I want to feel loved and appreciated. I hink what happen after I had my 2 year old I was diagnois with postpartummyopthy and CHF and right when I got out the hospital I had no help really I had to take care of kids while he was at work didn't get time to focus on my health at all I hold that against him because this was a serious deal. And now it hard for me to lose weight because I don't have time for myself I am not happy with myself. Please help.


Vicki - posted on 09/09/2012




Sorry you are feeling this way about yourself and your marriage. My advise would be to start taking care of you, sounds like you are left depleted due to constantly giving your power away to everyone else. Time to take it back! Make time for you start doing things that you enjoy work on you the more you work on you the more you can work on your marriage

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