Mindy - posted on 06/19/2011 ( no moms have responded yet )
My fiance and I been together a little over a year. I have two daughters that arnt by him and he has a daughter that isnt from me. He has been in my 15 months old life since she was three months, hes the one that has raised her, her bilogical father hasnt been in her life much and she knows him as Daddy. Well in the beginning of our relationship his family LOVED me and my girls and his daughters Mom and his family didnt get along at all in any shape or form and all they did was down her. Long story short, his daughters Mom treated my fiance like crap and his family when they was together. His daughters Mom didnt even really let his Mother or him around his little girl, she was always holding her over there heads if she didnt get her way. Now a little over a year him and I are living together and really happy and his Family especially his Mom is hating on me for no reason and is actin all buddy buddy with his daughters Mom. She is not excepting of me and my kids anymore and even wrote me saying she wants her son back with his daughters Mom so her grandaughter will have a stable life because she needs to see her Daddy all the time and she will do whatever it takes to make sure it happends. He sees her twice a week and his mother has her 2-3 times a week, the daughters Mom only has her like once maybe twice a week. She saids I should be pushing him to see his daughter more and etc. He had a pic of my baby and him as his main pic on facebook and his Mom triped about it saying its not right that he should only have pics of his OWN daughter. The crazy thing is she was married to someone who wasnt my fiances bilogical dad and her boyfriend now isnt her grandaughters real grandfather but he is accepting of her, its like shes having a double standered or something. I dont know what her problem is, I never done anything to her. I know I have nothing to worry about, that my fiance loves me and my daughters (our daughters). He was never really close to his Mom either because she used to do drugs and she abondend him when he was a little kid, Thats another one of her excuses, that she was a bad mother and she just wants to do right by her grand baby. Im trying to get over it but it hurts when I used to be close to his family and now there pushing me away for his ex. On top of that I just found out that im pregnant but I refuse to let her in my babys life if she cant except my kids and I. I dont know what to do.