Jenna - posted on 04/12/2013 ( 7 moms have responded )
I've dated my boyfriend for 2 1/2 years and we have a beautiful 6 month old baby boy and he has a 4 year old daughter. His daughters mom has never been my favorite person in the entire world and I never understood how they couldn't of been together when my boyfriend and I got together until I got to know her a little more. She grew up in a very nice neighborhood and had a very high financial life. I've never really talked to her because I thought there should be a line there.
His daughter who is 4, I love her as my own. I do everything a mom does with and for her. We get her Thursday-Monday morning and the mom gets her Monday-Thursday morning. When I had my son, the moms attitude changes towards my boyfriend and acted as if she were better or something? Every time we sent the daughter home to her, on instagram it would always show her going out to the bars and what not. Not to mention she brought a random guy around her without consulting my boyfriend. I don't know but I feel like that's out of line? Anyway, afterwards his daughter would tell me how she's always at her grandmas not her moms. So I took it upon my self to talk to the mom, not being any sort of rude, I said she needed to talk to my boyfriend because things we hear and see aren't the best and Her daughter was an awesome kid. She proceeded to basically tell me to mind my business and that her daughter came from a broken home and that she was her mother not me and I didn't know what was best. Then comes tuition for her schooling. The deal was 50/50. One month we decided to pay forward and we ended up paying a full month because she didnt tell us she didn't pay. And now she won't pay march or April. She also makes way more money then my boyfriend and I combined. I just feel so frustrated because of my distaste for her! Please give me advice how to deal