Trying to make a girl friend or two in Japan

Saori - posted on 02/18/2014 ( 4 moms have responded )

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Hi, I'm saori from Japan.
I just got married recently and things have been changed after we got married.
I wish it's really easy to find friends here but it seems like it's not easy here or there either.
I read some of posts and I had a a lot of common and reason so I wanted to give it a try.
I'm japanese and I had a few friends here but we stopped talking and one of here's wife was my friend and thought she could be best friend but i was stuff going on and I stopped talking to her for a while and I sent message to her but she told me she doesn't want me as a friend anymore. I really don't know and I don't want to know why because she wasn't real A friend at the first place I guess.
Anyway, I don't have a job yet.
Taking care of my amazing husband who works everyday and soon to be deployment again.
Husband is the only person I can go out with..
If he isn't around, I don't want to eat, I don't want to go out do stuff.
I don't think it will change anytime soon because I'm not weak but I just don't want to go out by myself.

I want a kid but I have a lot problems with my body and not for a while....

It seems like everybody has kids here in Japan and I don't think it's easy to find a friend who doesn't have a kid yet.
Anyway hope this could be the first step to find friends.
Thank you so much

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Katherine - posted on 02/18/2014

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Hi Saori , welcome to Circle of moms . I m sure u will find friends here . In the mean time u can pursue a hobby or may be find something u enjpy doing . Hope u a r taking good care of ur health . May God bless u.

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Katherine - posted on 02/22/2014

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You are welcome . Well i used to be an airhostess so was always going to exotic places n was surrounded by people . Then i got married n now a mother of an yr old baby girl and currently a stay at home mom . I love spending time with my hubby but dont have friends as i m unable to make time for them . Baby keeps me busy . But i got back to reading n now enjoying it . My mothers favorate line is ... Find Your Joy ... So i would suggest use ur time to bond more with hubby go on dates with him . And please try n go out also . Shopping alone is fun sometimes . U just have to try it . Hope u find friends soon . And aslo may u find ur joy . May G od bless u with good health n happiness . Take care

Saori - posted on 02/18/2014

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Thank you so much for responding.
For now, my husband is around but I really should find something.
That would be a great idea finding more hobbies I could be into.
Thank you so much ma'am

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