trying to understand bisexuality in my 13 year old girl, how to do

Diana - posted on 06/09/2015 ( 1 mom has responded )




I an learning how to establish boundaries, do I treat this no different that her other girl friends that spend the night...or the girl then can boys spend the night? of course camped out in the living room. but the changes. I want to it right and be respectful of her needs. ...interests.


MaryAnn - posted on 06/09/2015




There are a lot of ways to deal with this... and i dont think that any are wrong if you are hhaving open discussion with her. There are a few things to consider.
1. Girls cant get other girls pregnant.
2. Safe is always better- in both homosexual and heterosexual experiences.
3. Your own personal values about the possibility of those experiences happening in your home.
Were it me... the policy would be a simple "things go as they do now until i see or hear something you know you ought not do here. Then the boundaries start going up."
Unless she gives you a reason, her female non girlfriend friends should be welcome and trusted in the same way they have always been.

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