Unfit father and mean threats

Morgan - posted on 08/02/2012 ( 2 moms have responded )




I honestly do not know what to do. I am expectimg my 1st child in Jan. I am very excited for this baby, except not to deal with the father. He got me pregnant in purpose only to prove to his friends that we were having sex. He would go and tamper with my BC and the second he found he was going to be a father told all his friends then left.lHe said he moved to Flordia but I know that is not the truth because I see him around town. This would not be a problem because I met someone willing to care for me and the baby, but, theres always a but. The baby daddys mother says that they will fight to get full custody of the baby. The babys father has told me from the begining and told all my friends that he wants to give upi rights and not be a part of it. So I am not sure what he is even thinking. It would not be a problem to maybe allow him to have visitaions except the babys father does drugs and 1/2 the time does not even know what he is saying none the less doing and his mother sells drugs out of there house and everyone (7 people in a 3 bedroom house) smokes inside with no windows or doors open and i feel with my heart it is NOT the place for my baby to be. I guess my question is, how do I proove he is unfit and keep visitaions to the least amount and supervised. My child does not need to be around smoke and drugs all the time. All theyre threats have my mind go crazy and I just dont know what to think or do.


~♥Little Miss - posted on 08/02/2012




I would get a lawyer to protect you and your childs rights. No court is just going to let granparents take over custody without ample reason. Seek legal advice. There is not much other advice any of us can give that will help.


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Jaime - posted on 08/02/2012




The only thing I would add to what has already been said is; calm down. These are threats and a lot of drama and show to make you worry. Try NOT to worry and definitely seek legal advice immediately. I'm sorry you're experiencing so much upset, but just focus on you and the baby and take the necessary steps to be fully informed of your rights and take it a day at a time :)

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