Frustrated - posted on 10/30/2013
She has gotten in trouble at school, she has hit teachers, she beat up my 44 year old neighbor, she has lied repeatedly on me. She been in the detention home and doesn't care, she was going to counseling and the counselor quit due to her disrespect. Right now she is in a group home and has had several writes ups due to profanity, disrespect, and threats. I have a 19 year old daughter at home who is pregnant and she has threatened to beat her up. I don't want her back in my home, they diagnosed her with a mild case of adhd, but that is a bunch of bull she just wants to do what she wants and has no respect for authority, so the system felt the need to come up with something instead of calling a duck a duck. She was put in a shelter for a couple of days last year and ran away and got caught and once they caught her she told them she was kidnapped, forced to do drugs and raped.The police department did a whole rape kit,She lied about the rape,and she lied about doing drugs the probation office gave her a drug test the first one came up negative, but she was so adamant that she was forced to smoke weed they gave her another one and that came up negative to.She lies about serious things, and is very manipulative.She has lived with another family member before on her father's side and had to come back because all the trouble she was getting in over there. The aunts husband was going to leave because of my daughters behavior.When I say I don't want her in my home, they say I will be charged with neglect because of Ohio laws and there is the risk that the state can take my other kids, but they are well aware of her behaviors, the other kids act nothing like her. She is 16 and they don't want to deal with her either. I have been on anxiety medicine because she stresses me out so bad. I have a court appointed attorney but I feel he is not taking my case serious at all. I don't have the money for another attorney. We had a hearing last week where the judge gave her 30 more days, after the hearing we meet with probation and children services, and she threatens to beat the fuck out of my pregnant other daughter,(in her words)which has never done anything to her.She said this in front of her probation officer and the case worker and they bushed it off. I have concerns that if she comes home she will put her hands on her,and I have to work so my oldest daughter stays home to help look over my two sons until I come home, and not only that she lied about being raped. I have two sons still here, that definitely does not need to be in the house with someone who will lie about getting raped. I don't know what to do,and it seems like there is no help no where for the parent. This has been a complete nightmare! I love my daughter but I don't like her, she has done more stuff then a complete stranger, and is ruining my life and family. I need someone to help me before I lose my mind, and this is just some of the stuff she has done. I wouldn't wish this on anybody.
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