Courtney - posted on 11/29/2012 ( 6 moms have responded )
Hey, So I am a 18 and pregnant. I am all alone. my mom kicked me out. && the babys father was told by his parents not to say a word to me until the baby is born and a paternity test can be done. The mom still wants all of the info on my pregnancy though. I told her if he is not going to directly talk to me i would not be sharing all the info. His mom then texts me saying i am a a horrible person, they dont believe the baby is his, and i will deeply regret not telling her stuff. Its long long paragraphs about how im bullying them and trapping them by not telling them. She says her family is a family full of lawyers and i should be worried. I burned my bridge. Im just so lost and upset. All I wanted was her son to put input in on raising this child. She then replies "there is nothing anyone other than the person carrying ht baby can do, untill its born, not even my son." Not true just becasue the baby is not physically here dosent mean we cant prepare for this blessing. I found a job, an affordable town home, and im enrolled in community college. im saving and preparing the best I can. The only issue is i am moving out of state to this home. Ill be four months pregnant. They say i will greatly regret leaving as well. I dont understand though, The dad has not said a word to me since i told him, and he mom said he will not say a word until the baby is born and a paternity test is done. But i cant wait to plan for a baby untill after he is born you know? If they take me to court will he end up getting custody. She sends me text, very hurtful ones and when i defend my self she says im delusional, crazy, and psycho. Im afraid since her family is a family full of lawyers she knows what shes doing..... Any advice please!!!!!