very upset with daughter

Helen - posted on 04/19/2017 ( 5 moms have responded )

15

0

6

24 yr old daughter living at home going for her masters and works full time. New boyfriend that is 24 has no drivers license and works in a box store. She is sleeping over his house most of the time and I'm upset she's going to throw her career away.

5 Comments

View replies by

Carol Many - posted on 04/25/2017

15

0

0

It is so hard to let our grown up kids go, jsut as hard when we desperately want to help and we are not asked. Detachment is a skill to learn but when we do we can truly say; thy will O lord not mine. All we can do is support them.

Michelle - posted on 04/19/2017

4,616

8

3247

Like Ev said, she's an adult and can make her own choices.
Nothing you have written here says that she is throwing her own career away, she's still studying and working full time. I don't see the problem except that the boyfriend doesn't meet YOUR standards. Have you even met him? Have you made the effort to get to know him? He may surprise you.

Ev - posted on 04/19/2017

8,185

7

919

She is an adult and can decide what to do with her life. If you do not like her ways then you could have her move out.

Join Circle of Moms

Sign up for Circle of Moms and be a part of this community! Membership is just one click away.

Join Circle of Moms