Violent ex willing to admit he lied and beat me. I did nothing, police 4 years ago believed him after conviction of assault and several police reports

Liza - posted on 08/02/2013 ( 2 moms have responded )

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How do I get charges bought again, need this can't stop feeling no one believes me

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Liza - posted on 08/02/2013

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I had seven years of violent abuse, left a million times and went back, eventually left my home he wasn't living with us for years my parents bought all houses, I had to call my 4yr old down stairs to stop the barrage of punches . This was the last time he saw us or contacted us. He went on run for two weeks with eldest son from previous 16 at time, he has three previous kids I get on as family with. Has previous for violent crimes convicted for 3 years previous to meeting me! Not letting me know before moving me from my home in midlands to London on friends floors. My mother paid for deposit on flat, I got job from his friend, he kept coming in and sitting outside in my car beeping if 5oclock came and I was not leaving, I was office manager!!!! I lost job.
He beat me that last time, I didn't call police neighbours did, photos were given, blows to face torso, legs, hair loss. Cps denied his wrong doing, he told them after handing himself in, that I was doing drugs and he tried to stop me, I grabbed him by groin he had to beat me off!!!!! I have never hit him!! He looked at my phone bill and came into living room firstly strangling me then picking me up, winding me, then punching me over and over till I called our 4yr old to stop him. That's the last time he's hit me.
4yrs on he's just started seeing son again, girl won't go near him? Broke agreement two weeks ago and took son to his home in Northampton and his work, he was not allowed by our agreement to take him away. This started me with the fact I need my name cleared he's using my boy, I need my boy to at least know I have never hit don't agree with it and I'm not lying , Jon the dad is calling me mental now. Yesterday put letter thro door stating he will now make statement but worried ill use it to stop him seeing kids!!!!! That would only happen if he's so violent(which he is) that for the safety of kids he doesn't. He's had picked my son up by neck in fit of anger 6 months ago!!! I need to gain control again don't I. He's getting the better if me again, bully, snake.

Jodi - posted on 08/02/2013

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Is this about you getting revenge? Or about you trying to get evidence because you need to a keep a child away? Or about you getting him away from you? How long ago did this happen? More info would be helpful. You could definitely go and file a report, and if he is willing to admit it, he could also file a statement, and the police would take it from there.

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