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Pierre Van Der - posted on 12/10/2012 ( 2 moms have responded )

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my ex pays the childrens mantanance every month , but he only met my 3 year old 2 times

In the last year he didnt phone for Christmas on any birthday wishes

I contacted him for somthing that happened with the one child and he never asked if she was okey

Now he again wants to make contact , by the way he never nade contact for the first 2 year



what can I do ?

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Dove - posted on 12/10/2012

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You let him see his kids. Offer to meet in a public place w/ you present, so that they can get to know him again.

Michelle - posted on 12/10/2012

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Not a lot. He is their father and unless his rights have been taken away then has every right to see his children. It doesn't mean I agree with it but that's the rules.



The only way to stop it happening is to go to court and take away his rights. The only thing is you'd have to have a very good reason for a judge to grant it. Not seeing his children for 2 years isn't a good reason though.

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