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Liz - posted on 06/07/2016 ( 13 moms have responded )

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My son father get visit every Sunday but my 1 years old cries ever time he go there what should I do

and my son father once a month should I let him still see him?

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♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 06/08/2016

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Please tell the truth. Keep your story straight. I absolutely do NOT believe that you were writing for a friend.

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Liz - posted on 06/07/2016

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Im Mexican so sorry if u can't understand me I was asking for my friend she only 17 years old and I told her I would write it out on here to see what single mother would thank you have a nice day

Dove - posted on 06/07/2016

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No offense meant, but is English your second language? Your posts are frequently hard to fully comprehend as your sentence structure and grammar are confusing...

Your CHILD has just as much of a right to a relationship w/ his father as he has w/ you. Period. If you do not have a court order his father could wise up one day and take you to court for full custody if he so chooses... and if you keep thinking you get to call all the shots simply because you are the mother... he might very well GET full custody (it has happened to women playing your game before).

It does not matter that he is not on the birth certificate and it does not matter what name your child has... all the father needs is a DNA test and he has every right to pursue joint or even full custody if he so desires.

Liz - posted on 06/07/2016

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What mean by that even if he not on the birth certificate im just glad I made right choice make my child last name as my since were not married I feel I had that right

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 06/07/2016

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Why do you find the truth funny, Liz?

Is it simply because you don't agree? That, my dear, I cannot help.

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 06/07/2016

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"I won't let him have that"

Hate to break this to you, baby, but YOU DON'T GET TO MAKE THAT DETERMINATION.

"I'm glad we don't do shared custody...so that make me feel better"

I certainly hope your ex petitions for his rightful access to his child.

You don't get to make any determinations about whether or not you will "allow" your ex to see his child. The man has (read this carefully) the SAME PARENTING RIGHTS AS YOU DO. That child HAS THE RIGHT TO A RELATIONSHIP WITH HIS FATHER.

Stop being childish.

Liz - posted on 06/07/2016

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I'm not saying that I didn't keep my son way from him after he was born but but im glad we don't do share custody with him so that make me feel better

Dove - posted on 06/07/2016

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No kidding. I just meant if your son crying made you emotional to not let him see that. Sorry, but when MY kids cry... it upsets me too. I thought that was a normal mom reaction.

Fine... every other word I said stands... as do my unanswered questions.

Liz - posted on 06/07/2016

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What I meet my son cry when he gose to his house I don't cry he only there for 3 hours no over nights I won't let him have that

Dove - posted on 06/07/2016

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Of course you should. That's his father and they have a right to be together. Stay upbeat, hug and kiss your son, tell him you'll see him later, and hand him off to his dad. If it upsets you... cry when you get back in the house where your son can't see.

Is it every Sunday? Or only once a month? Is that what he wants or is that what the court order states?

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