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Alicia - posted on 05/19/2016 ( 3 moms have responded )

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i am currently going through the divorce process, he rarely texts me to talk to the kiddos and hasn't seem them in 2 months. i really don't think its fair to them for him to be a temp parent. but i also don't wanna get screwed in the case. i am stuck.

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Dove - posted on 05/19/2016

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2 months... is nothing. Get custody and visitation sorted out in court and then he can choose to take his time or not. Your kids will be OK. It's not your job to dictate how their father is... it's your job to help them through whatever happens.

Ev - posted on 05/19/2016

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Agree with SHawnn on this. Just because he made the choice to not see his kids does not mean you can decide if he does see them or not and can be used in court for his case against you keeping the kids from him. Just go by the law in your state or area concerning all this custody.

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 05/19/2016

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get custody and visitation set in court. Then, if he chooses not to use his time, it's not you making the decision. You must never tell him he can't see the kids, or put your own conditions on that.

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