wanna have FUN!!!

Maria - posted on 09/01/2013 ( 3 moms have responded )

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Hola! My name is Maria,33y/o single mother of a handsome 6y/o, he is my WORLD!! Been single for almost 4yrs now, was in a lot of emotional pain for awhile. Wondering WHY did this happened to me, were did I go wrong, what could I have done better, just blaming myself for everything. And I still have days were I just want to give up, but I look at my lil one and he don't deserve that. But now I just want to adventure, have FUN enjoy life, do differ things either in the city or in the country, so if any one has any suggestions on how to have REAL fun , please let me know!:D

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Maria - posted on 09/02/2013

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Thanx! and I have thought of that, but I can get all the help in the world, but at the end is all up to me. All of my friends tell me I need to move, and I want too, but it still hurts because I still love my son dad, he was my true love. Everyday i think about what all he did to me, and that i shouldn't love him, for ex: he cheated, he physically abused (not bad, i was nine pregnant and he slapped me):/ and he doesn't call or comes by to c his son, nor does he pay childsupport. That's why i keep telling myself WHY do i still have feelings, besides he happily lives with his new gf. Just wanna be able to move on and start a new life.

Jodi - posted on 09/01/2013

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I think maybe you need to talk to a professional, because it isn't healthy to be in emotional pain for that long, nor is it healthy to be blaming yourself for everything. A failed relationship takes two people, and while it is healthy to consider what you may have been able to do better, dwelling on what you did wrong and taking all the blame is something you need to work through. It sounds like you haven't done that, and this as important part of the healing process.

Amanda - posted on 09/01/2013

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Take you little one out to the parks on hikes and just enjoy the time together it will pass all to quickly.

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