want a baby blues......

Lisa - posted on 01/20/2013 ( 1 mom has responded )

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DILEMMA ugh my husband and i have just decided after a 9yr old and a 6 year old that we would like to try to have another baby THE PROBLEM: he had a vasectomy 5 years ago and its tooooo expensive to reverse.........now I have baby blues :( got any advise?

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~♥Little Miss - posted on 01/20/2013

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Well, either you will have to pay the money to reverse it, or start dealing with it daily that you will not have any more. There are no cheaper alternatives like adoption or surrogacy, or ivf. Really, the only alternative is what you already know to do. Reverse the vasectomy, or learn to live with it. I was not hasty in my decision to have my tubes tied. I had them done almost 3 ears ago, and am still grateful I had it done. I love my kids, but do not want any more. Maybe just look forward to being a grandparent? I know you are a ways off, but at least it is something you can look to the future for.

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