Rebecca - posted on 05/08/2012 ( 3 moms have responded )
My daughter is already 4 years old and my husband underwent a vasectomy over a year ago. He did nt do it behind my back but I guess I agreed to it thinking that he might still change his mind. Well he did not change his mind. Now I regret it even though it was the right choice at the time. We are financially not stable I am currently working on my masters and I did not want to fall pregnant by accident. Now all of my friends are already on their 2nd or even 3rd babies and I am actually feeling very jealous. I love my husband and we have finally reconnected after a shaky couple of years which on the on hand makes me think well since everything is finally perfect why wouldnt we want another one but on the other hand I think well why would we want to mess with this perfect situation. I just cant shake this feeling off that this was my one and only pregnancy. Time is passing by so quickly and I am still fertile but in a couple of years things will be different and I dont want to miss my last oppportunity. I was hoping that by now my husand would change his mind and would long for a child and possibly undergo a reversal vasectomy but no sign of that. I dont really know what answer I am looking for but is anybody in a similar situation?