Danielle - posted on 07/26/2012 ( 4 moms have responded )
I hate this I've been in the same relationship for 8 years and am madly in love with my boyfriend and father of my children, at one point we agreed to get married but then we had some problem and became unsure so I had gotten the deposits back on everything and he said he would never try and marry me again. I started to think that maybe our relationship isn't so great if I want something and he isn't welling to give it to me but then again what if I leave this relationship and end up just as unhappy with everything. Our relationship is awesome so should I really get upset over a piece of paper?? My mom tells me not to mess up something I know makes me happy and she loves my boyfriend anyway, my sister tells me if I'm unhappy with knowing I can never get married then maybe I should move on but I have to realize I'm losing what I have and going out blind. Well now I'm just rambling so any advice would be great, thanks for your time.