Jessica Van - posted on 12/10/2014 ( 1 mom has responded )
I'm due in 8 weeks. Have had a horrible few months dealing with my ex. He cheated, lied about drug use, and used me for child care of his other son while he did those things. He took me off his benefits and found someone new immediately when I gave him the opportunity for space and to clean up his act to be a dad. It sounds really white trash, but I am a pretty together, successful and educated person. He was a momentary lapse in judgement, that resulted in a tiny miracle I can't wait to meet.
My questions are pretty reasonable. What do I do about custody, visitations and child support? How do I ensure that baby is safe with me and not off with him being exposed to who knows what?
Leave him off the birth certificate?
Have custody settled immediately? How?
Have a written support agreement?