What can I do about my mom trying to take custody?

Misty - posted on 05/27/2012 ( 2 moms have responded )

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My mom will not give me any of my personal papers or the reat of my things. Nor will she give me my kids stuff. She keeps saying she don't have it. She has never had anything to do with my daughters school projects ect. I moved out a bit back after taking care of her for years. she wanted me and the guy I now live with together so baad but now we r and she is now trying to do everything to Hurt us. CPS has been called on us several times with false accusations and lies. Shrs on lots of meds. She wants my daughter. What do I do? I don't have money for legal help.

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You should have some kind of place there in your area that helps with legal advice that can help for free. Like legal aid. If your mom is on meds and on anything like that and acts like some phyco person. No court is going to give her your daughter. Besides, she may called social services and etc. lying about this that and the other. First off...Did they find anything? Did you get any letters stating that there hasn't been anything founded on child abuse or neglet? Usually you will get a letter stating that they found you and abuser or not. Believe me , Ive done went through the social service mumbo jumbo crap. As far as your mom keeps calling in and they don't find anything..You can get a lawyer and have the records pulled up about her calling in and making false claims and get her up on harrassment .I would get all my ducks in order. Papers from the state that it was false claims. They can only check it out and if nothing is found after a certain period of time, the case has to be closed. I would take those papers and find out all of you can find about her that can go against her. That way if she does try to go after your daughter, you have proof that she isn't fit to have her. The courts have to get you as an unfit parent anyhow before a child can be taken from you.
If you are having all these problems, I would contact the police department and get a no tresspassing papers and send it to her. If she doesnt except them from having to sign for getting the mail. Then you can pay the cops a couple of dollars to have the papers delivered. SHe can not come around your home or anything. If she does, she can go to jail. If you are having this much problems, I would. If my mom would try to take my child away and causing problems, I would tell her to go lay an egg and get her up on harrassment and file for a no tresspassing thing. If she continues to harrass. I would go and take it to court and have a retraining order put against her. I hope this will help you. But look for a legal aid in your area and tell them what is going on.They can get the papers of your mom calling in to the CPS. You can have her right there. No court would allow someone who is on meds and even allow someone to have a child whom gives false accusations. If she dont stop she can go to jail for that.

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