WHAT DO I DO???

Daniela - posted on 12/04/2012 ( 3 moms have responded )

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How can I just walk away. My boyfriend and I have been together for about 3 1/2 years. We have a 1 year old daughter and we are fighting constantly. I stay at home with Lilly and he goes to work. He claims that what he earns is "his money" because hes the one who worked to get it. He has a very addictive mind and once he starts something then its next to impossible to get him to stop and thats what he wants to spend all the money on. He also has anger problems. When he gets mad he gets physical with me and breaks windows or anything else he can destroy. I have horrible credit due to all the evictions that we have went through because he cant hold a job. Hes always accusing me of cheating on him while hes at work and tells me that if i get a job then he will leave me because ill find someone at work to mess around with. I dont know what to do. Im afraid that if i leave him i wont be able to support our daughter and that no one will love me because i have a child with someone else.

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Jennifer - posted on 12/04/2012

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I also grew up without a father ! I know that if my mother kept my father around....I wouldn't be who I am today. Fear is not a may to live......you are not alone.....you have your mother to help you.... I can't speak for you or what you should do. I know that I would never put up with that.... Your daughter needs a strong role model........

Daniela - posted on 12/04/2012

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My friends and family know. My mother urges me to leave him but for most of my adult life he's all I've ever known. I know I would react the same way if I were in my mothers shoes. I'm afraid that if i were to leave him that he wouldn't want anything to do with our daughter and I grew up without my father around and I know how much it hurts. I don't want her to have to go through what I did growing up.

Jennifer - posted on 12/04/2012

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Daniela....You are a mother now.....and you are a mother 1st !!!! You have to do what is best for you and your daughter !!!!!!!!! What if he gets worse ? Do u have family ? Friends ? Do they know what is going on ?



Ask yourself if your daughter came to you.....what advice would you give her ??



Good luck....be strong....

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