What do i do about my ex when he just got married with a baby on the way?

Ghabrielle - posted on 04/21/2012 ( 4 moms have responded )

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Hey, I am 25 yrs old with three children ...a 2 yr old and a set of twins that are 1... currently im a stay at home mom now.... Me and my ex seperated about a year ago i had to move out of town to stay with my grandparents for support because my ex decided to jus get up one morning to leave me and the kids ....at that time i didnt have any income so he left me with all the bills and my three babies to raise.... but when we seperated he agreed to give me 300 a month for the kids....... But now jus recently he jus got married to a lady that has two of her own and now they have a baby on the way... he kind of stop calling about the kids and he kind of got away a couple of times without sending the money i dont if it because his married now with a baby on the way i just dont get it...I filed for custody and child support I jus dont no what to do I still kind of have feelings for him.... he was like my first love and we almost been together for 3 yrs .... I need ADVISE???

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Ghabrielle - posted on 04/21/2012

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That's alright maybe that's what I need to hear but I know I'm gonna get there sooner or later..... Thanks for the advise!

Iridescent - posted on 04/21/2012

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I know it is. I did it though - but it took me several years, and I'm sure that's not what you want to hear right now. I'm happy with who I am now, and my life, while stressful, is fully what I chose and I'm proud of it. I went to college and got a degree I use and enjoy, and I continue to set goals for myself.

Iridescent - posted on 04/21/2012

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Move on. Get some counseling to help you if you need to, but you must move on. Take care of yourself and become the person you'd want to be proud of for who YOU are, be a parent to your kids like you already are, set goals, and things will eventually come together.

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