What do I do if im pregnant with my second child and i believe my spouse is cheating on me?

Danielle - posted on 06/06/2012 ( 3 moms have responded )

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I really want to leave him, especially if he is cheating. He has become secretive. Hiding and deleting messages from other women. Having inappropriate conversations with them. Staying out until the early hours of the morning. He even told me he didn't want to have sex because he was tired of me being pregnant and he wants my old body back. We do nothing but argue now. I even found him with condoms. I keep trying to make things work but its gotten to the point where Im crying everyday because I cant do anything without him. I would have no where to go without him and being pregnant i cant get a job.I have no family to turn to for support, they all want to tell me to leave but will not help me if i do leave. I don't know what to do. This is my first marriage and i really want it to work but i do not want to settle for a man who does me wrong. Im confused about what i should do. Plz help.

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Diamond And Rubies - posted on 06/07/2012

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Ted I agree with Louise, there are women centers that take in mom and kids and help them get apartments if u left with the clothes on your back. Google.. But erase your history...

Louise - posted on 06/07/2012

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You ring your local council and ask about help for single mothers in the area. They tell you what benefits you can claim and where you stand legally. If he is cheating on you, and it sounds to me that he is then you will never be happy, and you will be a fool if you stay. You know this!

Make a few discreet calls today.

Diamond And Rubies - posted on 06/06/2012

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I agree with your ending sentences, respect yourself first and be a good role for your children. But.. You need facts. Remember if your are pregnant, your hormones and emotions are off. I was single for 12 years as a single mom, now married, how do you say the right thing to you? I can't imagine. I found a pair of panties that weren't mine, it was so hard not to be livid, we got to bottom of it and even confronted the person. So,who knows..
Have you check the credit card for hotels etc? Called work if he was very late? Asked mutual friends? Dig around first and always communicate.
Some men are scared of a pregnant body, it's beautiful don't let him tell you any differently!!
Ask him if he could survive a semi running him over?? It's comparable

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