Erika - posted on 11/04/2013 ( 14 moms have responded )
i ad my child almost three years ago but me and her dad had been separated for more than that i dont receive any child support but he is constantly telling me he has alot of money but that iam never going to see any of it because he says im going to use it on me not her.(which never would i do that) every time i say he needs to pay he says he has bills to pay and to ask my boyfriend which i recently started dating to give me money which is totally ridiculous. He is really mad at the fact that iam now dating again so he thinks it makes it all better by texting me mean messages and calling me a bad mom and always harassing me. Every time i ask for something for my daughter or ask him to pay he says he has bills to pay he just got 2 dwi's and all the money goes to the court and lawyers just so he wount get locked up he sees my daughter every other Saturday and to me that is not a father to me a father is the one that raises them and takes care of them not the one that takes them out on weekends to eat or something but of course the law in texas claims that is '"the best interest of the child" i dont know what to do he never pays and is constantly harassing me what can i do?