Jessica - posted on 05/02/2012 ( 2 moms have responded )
My daughter will be 4 in June. I recently took my x back to court for sole custody and to modify child support. I won both but in return I was bullied into agreeing visitation. He has been absent since she was 6 months old. He is verbally abusive towards me and doesn't try to interact with her in his visits. Id like to have him just "go away". She has no idea who he is, she calls my fiancee daddy (he's been there since she was 1). Im not sure what I can do about this. He tells me he's going to take her and what not. He has expressed a number of times giving up his rights so he doesn't have to pay anything. Im totally for that but now he's angry with me because her preschool went up and has changed his mind and is pushing for me to let him take her. I have a court order that states "when she appears comfortable she's allowed to go to his house". Honestly she has no idea about stranger danger lol she's a very out going child. On the other hand when Im not around she screams and crys for me. I just need some advice on what to do. Do i have a chance on stripping him of his rights? Can I go back to court and have the visitation canceled even though he comes to some of them? please help!