What do I need to do about a 17 YOB that is a close family friend, that kissed my 14 year old daughter?

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♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 03/07/2012

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I agree with the rest for the most part. That, and congratulate her, she got her first kiss, and it sounds like he was considerate.

Kate CP - posted on 03/07/2012

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I agree with the other ladies. I would encourage her to not be around him alone for a while as he may have feelings for her and it may make her (and him) uncomfortable. But I don't think he needs to be reprimanded or punished. She needs to learn to say no loudly and clearly and firmly when it comes to boys (or girls). If it happens again I would get concerned...but a one time thing is probably not that big of a deal.

Bonnie - posted on 03/07/2012

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It doesn't sound like anything to be concerned about, but if she is uncomfortable with it and doesn't want him to kiss her, she needs to let him know.

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Let her know that it is ok to tell him no and that it is ok to push him away if he won't listen.... and to tell you right away. I think I'd be supervising the situation a bit more closely as well whether she wanted to or not. Either way would concern me.

Sherri - posted on 03/07/2012

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Nothing it seems innocent enough. It was only a kiss, she needs to tell him she isn't interested if she doesn't want too next time.

User - posted on 03/07/2012

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She was comforting him about a girl he liked. He was crying and she gave him a hug. Then he said can I give you a kiss, thanking her. She thought he was just going to kiss her on the forehead. But it was on the lips. He is a good kid and she is too, but it freaked her out. She told him it was her first kiss that is why she freaked out, so he kissed her again.

We found out about it because she had mistakenly called me and did not know it. I heard the conversation between her and her friends.

Kate CP - posted on 03/07/2012

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Uhh, more info is needed here. I mean, did she WANT to be kissed? Was it JUST a kiss? Is she afraid of this boy?

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