what do to my husband is addicated to porn

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Tamara - posted on 07/08/2011

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I am going to assume since you posted it bothers you, You could do a nanny block on the computer, talk to him, go to counseling, leave, do away with the internet all together, I do think sitting down and discussing it with him is the best place to start.

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Bri - posted on 07/09/2011

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I would sit down and have a talk with him. I wouldnt deal with that. Thats just an issue I have personally that I can't stand. But since your husband and wife defintly be supportive on getting your DH the help he needs. We might need more info on how bad the addiction is to Porn.
Before I got into a relationship I kinda knew my DH(now) didn't have a Porn problem if so it would be a con against the relationship its just a tough subject for ME personally to deal with. But we are all different.

Sit down have a talk and discuss how its bothering you and you need a change in this. A marriage works both ways and both need to realize there needs to be a change , if he doesn't think so then its going to be a lot tougher down the road. You have to see that there needs to be a change.

Joy - posted on 07/09/2011

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I am sorry to hear this, my husband was addicted to porn when we met but I did not know until 3 years into our marriage. First of all I would talk to him and let him know how this makes you feel. Hopefully he can find a way to stop, if he is willing see if he can get someone to talk to about it and if he is ok with blocks on your computers. some ways to help is ask him on a daily basis if he is still having issues it will take a while before he is able to say no so don't let it get you down. Also I would move the computer to a main living area so it is less of a temptation for him. I wish you the best of luck, if you need someone to talk to let me know, I know how hard it can be going thru this.

♏*PHOENIX*♏ - posted on 07/08/2011

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When you say addicted what do you mean??
Is it ALL day EVERYDAY? Does he miss work over it? Does he neglect you and the family…??

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