Ana - posted on 03/05/2014 ( 4 moms have responded )
I am really struggling with what to do in my relationship. I just feel so hopeless in our relationship at times because he is a very strong willed man and everything has to be his way or no way. Like our main problem is "money". "Money" seems to be the cause of our arguments all the time. The reason the it is a problem is because I am a house wife and a student and I don't work because is hard to be a full time student a full time mom and be working at the same time and to do all that is so much and is stressful and for that is the reason why I to drop off my job had no other way out and I decide to finish with my school because that's my priority that is gonna give me a better future for my kids. When I quit my job since i had no money coming in to me i needed money to buy my kids their needs like shoes clothes school supplies well when i started to ask my husband to give me money to buy my kids their needs he never wanted to give me money he will always complain about it and tell me to find a way how to get money that was my problem that the money he works it was is for his things not for me and that it was not his "obligation" to support me to give me money for gas to for school or take the kids to school or to the doctor things like that. I got to a point to tell him that I was done but i don't know why he thinks im playing about it this or that im being serious. I also have some things that im not liking the way he disciplines my kids because he always responds in a aggressive way i just dont know what to do i have consider in leaving him but i don't know why i cant do it or do something about it.