What do you do when he changes his mind?

Jennifer Tillman - posted on 11/11/2012 ( 2 moms have responded )

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I am 36 weeks pregnant, and the man that is the father of my baby, who even though we are compleat bestfriends and have been in an a on going relationship off and on but solid now for almost a year and was supposed to be getting married informed me that he is no longer in love with me. He said that everything he has been doing over the last few years was only to make me happy not making himself happy. My heart is broken and he wants to take a step back in our relationship to being just bestfriends and seeing if he can fall back in love with me. I really don't know what to do. On one hand at least we still have that conection and he is still in mine and my kids lives and I know he will still be a great daddy but on the other hand I still want to marry him and have a life with him my feelings and love for him have not changed. What does anyone else think?

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Jennifer Tillman - posted on 11/11/2012

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That's part of the problem I am already another divorce statistic. I have been divorced for 5 years with three kids. I don't want to force to fall back in love with me I know I can't do that. I just wish I knew how I was supposed to deal with it. He is still my bestfriend and we are still having a baby any day but the turning back the clock to just friends with him is harder than I thought it would be.

Michelle - posted on 11/11/2012

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You can't make someone love you. Sometimes it's best to let them go if our feelings aren't returned. It won't turn out well if he's feeling like this and still marries you, you will be another divorce statistic. At least he told you before you got married.



Maybe he will fall in love with you again, but that completely up to him.

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