Chelsea - posted on 12/16/2012 ( 2 moms have responded )
My daughters father has a lets say not so wonderful girlfriend, I am aware that he was going to move on, because he cheated on me throughout our whole relationship, but this girl is getting too involved in my child's life. I understand there are good women out there but this one is not one of them. She has been teaching my daughter that I am a bad person and I am not her mother and that she is. This upsets my daughter and I have had talks with her father and he doesn't care at all. She has been throwing away the extremely nice clothes I spend a lot of money on. I have sent cheaper clothes too and she throws those out too. My daughters dad doesn't pay child support and he is suppose too. My daughter comes back in very I would say ugly clothes and her dad says that his gf doesn't like how I dress my child so she does throw them away and then puts what she wants on her. Today my daughter came home with her hair cut, my daughter had beautiful locks of curls and her hair was fine the way it was and her father said his gf wanted her hair cut,so she cut it. My daughter has no hair any more its cut way above her ears when it was passed her shoulders. What can I do. This girl and I have gotten into it and she has made several comments to me, that she will make sure that my daughter becomes her daughter and that it was a fluke that I had her. What can I do?