Javeia - posted on 11/27/2012 ( 1 mom has responded )
I had my little one at age 18 (21 now) all of my so called dreams went out the door. I went to a community college got a two year degree with hopes of working in a lab type setting only to find out I was missing some classes. Luckily, I have a good husband where I can stay home with my chikin mini until a pay raise kicks in and I can afford to put him in a suitable daycare. I don't have any family members close by to take a break to blow off steam and I am afraid to leave him with some of my friends because of their bad habits such as smoking, or swearing.
With that being said, almost everything my chikin mini does wrong almost bothers me: If he is too rough, too loud, if he whines gosh especially if he whines. I have become the bad parent and my husband look like a saint. I don't know if me being annoyed is a factor of me being angry because things didn't go as planned in life for me or because I feel like I keep working on stuff with him and reminding him of the rules over and over and over again and I feel like he should know this stuff at age three.
I am looking for a solution for me to keep calm and me not be so aggravated by every little thing he does. I seemed to have lost my way please help.