Claire - posted on 01/25/2013 ( 5 moms have responded )
I am in a relationship and my husbands ex is controlling his right to see his child.
My question is: How much do I get involved, I have sent her messages, I have asked for when she is off work so we can arrange to see his child, she has thrown in my face that I have nothing to do with her child, and I feel very stressed at this fact, that I am giving up things and working flippin hard so that we can pay her her maintenance....She doesn't seem to understand the effort that I go through to make sure that when we visit (we live in Sweden and she lives in Wales) I arrange all the visits, around her and she is still awkward....I feel that I want to cut her money back to what she deserves, and when she decides to buck up her ideas then I will increase her money is this right?
I have been a single mum too, and the treatment that she is giving my husband I would never give to my sons father, and he left me for another woman!
Or should I just stay out of it?