what happens when the father dont wanna pay child support?

Carol - posted on 07/14/2011 ( 3 moms have responded )

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i have been back and forth to court with my daughters father.. he is a longshoreman and makes close to 200 k a year. we went to court this last particular time and he lied to the judge saying he only made 70,000. him and his new wife are both on drugs.. its a nightmare. i am so miserable. i am constantly fighting the both of them.. his wife has harrassed my daughter and me numerous times. saying some really really out of line stuff. i am fed up. when we went to court the judge said i have until september to provide proof my daughter is a full time college student. now, a couple days ago, i receive a letter in the mail reading that i have 10 days to provide proof of her being enrolled into college. he went and hired a lawyer. after we had already been to family court. right now, i am beside myself.

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Carol - posted on 07/14/2011

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yes, my daughter has already a start with college. when she was in high school she was going to college in the after noon . she did the half day high school half day college thing. but, she already has her acceptance letter for college. she is going for forensics.

Carol - posted on 07/14/2011

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yes, he is paying 212. and we do have an acceptance letter.. but, i think it was ridiculous going to a lawyer when the judge had already told him that i had until september. we had determined this already when i went for an increase in child support. he was giving 100 a week. so i think he is mad because they raised him to 212. but, hes been getting away with so much. cause he lied to the judge. the person who did his taxes told someone i know that he made almost 200,000. i dont want any problems with him... he seems to think its easy to pay bills rent and clothe and feed our daughter. shes been through so much with him.. his wife is very jealous, shes caused so much chaos with my daughter and her dad. she threatened my daughter and said that she would take him away from her and make sure he never speaks to her again. do you see what im dealing with? my daughter was so upset, she ran in the bathroom and started crying....you have no idea how stressful it is.

Jodi - posted on 07/14/2011

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So what is the issue? Is she enrolled in college? Can you provide that proof? It sounds to me like you aren't being denied child support, but that you just need to provide the proof.

Also, is he paying any child support now? On whichever income, even on the $70K? Sorry, I couldn't tell from your post.

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