Lynn - posted on 12/19/2012 ( 3 moms have responded )
Well we have been together for 3 years off and on, we have a beautiful 8 month daughter together. I guess sometime in are relationship there was very ruff patch he end up sleeping with someone he knew for some years and end up getting her pregnant. I was obviously very hurt and at the time my daughter was about 3 months. I believe the only reason he told me is that eventually it will come up. I told him that I don't know how I'm going to react until the child is here, I was still pissed and hurt.So we kind of work thing out for our daughter sake, but the baby is here now. I'm feeling hurt and pain all over again by the whole situation. He also claimed that he don't know whether the child is his but it turn out it was his. I feel that he completely shut down emotionally, and that also frustrate me as well. We are contemplating whether we are going to be together anymore and most of it is behind this situation. What should I do, should I stay and work thing out with my daughter father or just let it go.