Linda - posted on 08/01/2012 ( 1 mom has responded )
My aunt and I were due 1 day apart, her baby was born early and is not expected to survive long on her own (but so far is breathing on her own). My friend has canceled my baby shower under pressure from my family which has bothered dad to be's family as they made plans to come in from out of town to celebrate for his first child (my 2nd, #1 is 8 years old). I feel guilty for having a healthy pregnancy so far and feel torn between the families. What can I do to help my aunt and family and not feel so guilty?