What is the mind of a father who abandon his own child to live with his mistress? What is the mind of a mistress, who successfully steal someone's husband and still mad at the first wife?

Countess - posted on 01/06/2013 ( 3 moms have responded )

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My ex husband left us to have an affair with a rich girl. My in laws had consented the affair and believe it or not was the main reason of the break up. I had to give up the marriage because I think it was already impossible to repair, not to mention my ex husband's apology was not the kind of apology I wanted him to give. I let him go and had given him up to her mistress without reservation . I moved out the country and tried to live peacefully without remembering the traumatic experience. You know what it is to be a single mother, you wanted to give everything to your child. My ex husband was a Cosmetic Surgeon and he was capable to give financial support to his child. However, he was extremely mad at us, and his mistress had this grudges against us. Both of them help each other to make us suffer until I surrendered not to get any support from him if he didn't want to. He just wanted to give a penny (literary) as his support. Because of that, I tried to support my child as much I could without expecting any help from him. It was so hard, but I was wondering, a man so blessed with wealth, a career and a family that had supported him all throughout is not generous? I thought, every man that has been blessed is very generous. Why is an educated man can do such thing to his own child? We'd been married twice, and we had 2 children, its just that the first born child had died at birth. When we had the second child he had an affair and left us just like that when my child was still a baby. Were they truly happy stamping someone's feet? Further, the mistress' parents were also tried to threaten us and had hired goon to make trouble at my work... We could not afford to go to court. We were living in a third world country and we could not afford justice. I already did, and the case only ended up in favor of them. They were rich, and the justice could be bought here. I filed support, and it was decided, even a penny I accepted it, but until now I never received any, my lawyer squeezed the court to give a final decision so we can receive the 5 years he never had given but the case was nowhere and until now had been hung in favor of them. I tried to file violence against women and children, but the case was dismissed because I failed to push through I never received any reply and I just discovered that the response was sent to an address I had never known in my entire life. It was so painful, you could feel the "injustice" inside. But you were helpless. We had no choice but to believe in prayers that soon Goodness and Just will always prevail. Wish we could live peacefully and had also blessings like they were experiencing too.

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Jodi - posted on 01/06/2013

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Ok, your initial post wasn't clear as to who was taking who to court. So you were filing against him for child support? And why did you file for violence against women and children? I am finding your post quite confusing. What country are you in, and what country is he in? That might help with understanding a little.

Countess - posted on 01/06/2013

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I was the one who file a case against him. We need to move out because we need to survive. He was not giving any and his mistress was doing anything just to take us out of the picture. Besides he did n't want anything to do with his own child. I'm just expecting a little conscience, which I realized it was a mistake to expect to a man like him, that even though he chose to abandon the child he could at least give financial assistance at least to make up with his absence. But He wanted complete cruelty against his own child. We need to move out because we were chasing by his mistress goons. How about that>>>?

Jodi - posted on 01/06/2013

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What did he take you to court for? Access to his children? While I am sorry this has happened to you, and your ex is a total arse, you had no right to take the children away from him by moving out of the country.

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