Victoria - posted on 12/15/2009 ( 46 moms have responded )
Between me and my husband we have 4 children one of which is ours together, and now I am pregnant with # 5. My 4th and his 3rd. We are so excited! But when we break the news we automatically get judged or deemed crazy. My own best friend had some very negative things to say. We both have good jobs and yes we may struggle at times but our children will never do without. Granted we do not want to be like the Duggars but if we are conceiving from pure love then what's the problem? We both love children and aren't sure if this will be the last for us. We also love each other and have a great relationship . So tell me, struggle or not, what's wrong with having more than the average 2 or 3 kids?
Another thing, who really can "afford" another baby considering you never know what you might get into??? Unless, you are rich.