What is yalls tactic on Discipline?

Jane - posted on 01/14/2014 ( 6 moms have responded )

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Im having soo much trouble with my little man listening to me He is 3. I need help ive tried the spanking on the hand ive tried the timeout nothing seems to work. I don't want to be that mom where I let him walk all over me help??

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if he wont help pick up take away all the toys for a week. Then give them back slowly a few at a time for good behaviour.

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 01/14/2014

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Consistency and consequences are key.

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what exactly does he do?
Examples:
Not behaving when getting ready to go out. Don't go out and tell him its because he was bad, or if you can he stay home with someone else and you go out if it was to run errands.

If it's throwing a toy around the house where he shouldn't take away the toy and say it's gone until the end of the week.

If he gets a treat during the day, that is there for enjoyment not nutrition, tell him he won't get his treat if he keeps being bad.

There are numerous ways to stop bad behaviour.

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Jane - posted on 02/03/2014

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Holly see I have a best friend who tells me the same thing for everything he does that's bad I hate saying bad cause my son is not bad he just doesn't listen. well ok holly ive tried the spanking the bare spanking the hand ive tried a lot and he seems to think cause im his mom I wont do anything yes I baby him hes my lil guy my one and only so yes I know its a little bit my fault too that he doesn't listen but ive already tried soo much and he still doesn't want to listen. the only thing I can really take away is tv. because he doesn't care for his tablet or any thing else lol. so when you spanked your kids did it help

Jane - posted on 02/03/2014

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Aww Thanks For yalls input. But yes he doesn't listen like for example when I tell him to pick up his toys its like he doesn't hear me at all. And omg I can only do so much screaming and its even harder to parent when my mom over there is using a different tactic then me my mom is a teacher so for her everything is different. And spanking doesn't help with my son at all ive spanked his bare and he seems to think nothing. but hes only like this with me and my parents casue he knows he can get away with it. his dad always freaks out when I tell him about our sons behavior.

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 01/14/2014

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Seriously, Holly, he's THREE. Spanking a 3 year old doesn't have any effect, really.

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