Natasha - posted on 12/25/2012 ( 7 moms have responded )
I have been granted sole custody of my son and his father is allowed supervised visits but since August 20th he has only come to see him 4 times and only calls when it is convienient to him. I have told him time and time again that our son needs consistancy and he needs to make it a priority to call on a regular basis if he wants to continue contact. However whenever he does call he tells my son he misses him and is going to come see him and doesnt . also he tells him it is my fault he doesnt see him when he has no one to blame but himself. He calls me threatening and trying to make me feel bad about it but I am trying to protect my son because at this point my son thinks he is responsible somehow for why his father doesnt come around ( why am I not good enough) .. Can anyone tell me if I have the right to protect by stopping all communication between the 2 of them or can i get in trouble for this? The inconsistancy and things he tells my son is causing problems. also when my son does talk to him or sees him because it is so few and far between , my son afterwards goes on a spree of disrespect and behaving horribly for about 3-4 days until he forgets again... please please I want to hear from u all.. Thank you.. Do you think I am wrong for wanting to protect my kid?