Felicia - posted on 01/30/2016 ( 10 moms have responded )
Well this is a confusing question and i hope someone understands. When i was 16 i was dating a guy who had to leave to go home to bury his gma when he was away my ex paid a visit and anyways 5months later i found out i was pregnant. My boyfriend at the time was told it wasnt his and explained what happened, before i could talk to the bio he ran into me at the mall and told me he knew i was pregnant and knew it was his but he had gotten another girl knocked up also and that he didnt know what he was gonna do. Well i told my boyfriend what he had said and me and him decided to call him to see if he was going to step up we got cussed out and in front of the new girl said i was a lair. So my then boyfriend told me that he loved me and that he will gladly be my husband and raise him as his own. We got married and he put his name on birth certificate. Well i got pregnant with 2nd son and my husband decided he didnt want to be a dad anymore an left me . He paid child support for my two boys i told him i didnt want him to with the first cause it wasnt fair to him and he didnt care. 16 years later he decided to get a dna test though the court to prove he wasnt the father so now he doesnt pay anymore.I contacted the bio and said he needs to step up now after 16years or i will contact child support enforcement but he said he didnt want to do that that he wanted to settle this without them . The question is should i do it his way or do it though child support!?