What should i do ?

Army Girl - posted on 09/26/2011 ( 6 moms have responded )

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Hi everyone , i dont really know where to start , well i moved with my fiance after i find out i was pregnant 5.5weeks i moved to another country where he was living he came with a big truck taking everything from my place i quit my job , and left really everything back home thinking about my new family life , things went good for the first months and after that i find out he was cheating on me with girls he meet online , i told him about and he confes he say he will never doit again , i went back home for like a month to visit my family but when i came back things was really getting worse everyday , his phone did never stop getting text messages as he is all the time on his laptop plus going for long rides even weekends alone on his bike .. 10 days ago i catch him he was cheating on me with more then one girl .. i told him i could not handle that no more and he say i can go if i am not happy , i drove for 15 hours alone 33 weeks pregnant he never call or ask if we ( me and the baby ) was okay , after a week he email me telling me he miss me and that he wants me back home but in the same time he say to his friends that he just want the baby .. do i have to register baby on his name or do i really have to avoid every contact with him ... thanks for reading my story i really need some advices the baby is due 20th oct+- ..

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No, you don't have to put his name on the baby's birth certificate. I don't know of any state that would make you. I think if he's cheated on you that many times then it's probably best not to go back to him. It sounds like you have a supportive family and I'd stick with them. Stay with those who love you and will treat you with respect. This man obviously has no respect for you. I'm sorry you're going through this. Best of luck to you. My son's birthday is October 17th...a good time of year to be born :)

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Jasmin - posted on 09/27/2011

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aviod all contact and mov on with your life enjoy being a mom and never let thatman back in your life agian and give that baby your last name

Christy - posted on 09/27/2011

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You don't have to put his name on the birth cert, but if you do, it makes getting child support for your baby easier. Sorry you are going thru this! ****HUGS***

Army Girl - posted on 09/26/2011

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Oh that`s one more thing he went just one time with my by the doctor though for 7 months of my pregnancy .

Cindy - posted on 09/26/2011

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You need to think about what's best for the child. I know it's difficult. I'm sorry you are going thru this, but you will make it thru it. If you left him, you are a strong woman.

Cindy - posted on 09/26/2011

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You probably don't have to put his name on the birth record, but you should. You should probably have as little contact with him as possible until you are strong enough to not go back with him. BUT he should be a part of the child life. You should have a visitation schedule and he should pay child support.

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