what should i do about my fiancee looking at porn constintly

Danie - posted on 12/14/2012 ( 4 moms have responded )

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okay so me and my fiancee have been together for a while, i am now pregnant with my 3rd child, were young and still active.. but it seems as though he is more into porn then me. i feel as though im not attractive to him anymore or that im not good enough, i have asked him about this and he said he just likes to look at it, that it doesn't mean anything but he does it ALL the time.. i don't know what to do anymore and i really don't know what to think.. does anyone have any advise.?

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Ashley - posted on 12/16/2012

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nagging him about it might make him want to do it even more. eventually it will stop, just ignore it. looking at porn is much better than him going out and actually doing it with someone else. you could tell him how you feel, but only do it once, dont mention it anymore after that. or maybe you could ask to watch it with him, or make your own, so when he wants to watch it, he can watch what you 2 made.

Jade - posted on 12/14/2012

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hay i am pregnant with my first and also bin with my partner for a while he loves looking at porn but just dimiss it as i found that he stopped after a while or if it is really bugging you then tell him how it makes u feel thats what i did and i found he pays more attenstion to me now. hope this helps

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Elizabeth - posted on 12/16/2012

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I have been with mine for 5 years and he watches porn also. I made one rule that he doesnlt watch it while i am in the room. I also feel the same as you that I am not as good looking as the girls on them (i've had 4 kids). Try that is might make both of you happy.

Danie - posted on 12/16/2012

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ive only asked him once, and i am trying to let it go.. ive offered to watch it with him and try new things.. and yes i'd rather have him to that then go out and cheat on me..

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