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My bf and I each have a boy from different relationships. His son is over every weekend and we have mine full time. We all get along great! But my step sons mother is a little nutty. Sometimes she says mean things about me and trys to tell her son that im bad and what not, and the next weekend she suggesting he spends more time with me. ANYWAYS. this weekend she decided that we take him for sunday night and get him to and from school, which i dont have a problem with, i love the boy like my own, but the reason for this ( and note is was 7pm sunday when she suddenly decided this) is because she said she heavily medicated and wont be home, and needs a break from life. Now i guess what im getting at is, id like to keep him here, in a stable environment until she can figure out what the hell is wrong with herself. when shes a mom, shes a great mom, but she takes alot of meds and drinks alot. i Just need some advice on how to approach the idea of keeping him for as long as it takes her to get her head together.. she will try and guilt trip us if it brought up to her, and it stresses everyone out so we push it under the rug. this is not the first time something like this has happened... I just want the boy to be where i know hes okay. i know hes not MY son, but i really love him.