what should i do about the Ex wife always wanting to come over and visit?

Nashawn - posted on 08/28/2012 ( 3 moms have responded )

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I am27 and recently married, I have 2 step kids a boy and a girl and me and my husband have a son of our own. My husbands has.a divorce agreement that they get the kids every other week we get them on Sunday and on Monday the mom wants to come over and visit the kids. I say no because we just got them and I don't want her in my house everyday. Am I wrong to not want her in my house? Its just very uncomfortable.

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Chaya - posted on 08/28/2012

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You do not have to welcome her at any time, I, being a social person, would welcome her unless she was a threat to me or my family. My logic is that if we get along well, the children won't be playing both ends against the middle

Dove - posted on 08/28/2012

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There is no reason for her to ever be in your house. Their father is entitled to his visitation with them just as much as she is... Perhaps set up a daily call time where she can talk to the kids just to 'check in', but there is definitely no reason for her to be in the house just as there is no reason for you and the father to be in her house. Though this is really something for your husband to settle with her. How does HE feel about it?

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