Jennifer - posted on 09/16/2012 ( no moms have responded yet )
My heart is breaking for my step children and I don't know what to do!! My Hubby has sole custody of my 12 yo stepson and my 10yo stepdaughter, but their bio mom has visitation rights every other weekend.It's been this way for the past 71/2 years. Well her and my stepson have a horrible relationship and she treats him awfully. Because he is always challenging her about certain issues. She tells the kids I'm not their mom, my parent are not their grandparents, and my brother isn't their uncle and this upsets him! And he is constanly arguing with her about smokin in the car with him and his sister (which is completely understandable) Well, this past weekend they got into it once again about her smoking in the car and she tells him"It's my car and I can do what I wan't in it. No kid is gonna tell me what to do!" then she purposely blows smoke in his face and tells him to get out of her car! He waited in a parking lot for about 30 minutes until we could get him! Then she calls him a "snich" for telling us what happened! I was appalled by this!! Needless to say my son now wants nothing to do with her.....BUT by daughter still wants to visit her. I'm afraid to leave my daughter alone with her, because she wont tell us when her mom does something she shouldnt do (unlike our son). Their mom has a past of drug use and hanging out with a rough crowd of people. Which is how my hubby got sole custody. I don't want my daughter upset if she doesnt see her mom but I don't want my son over there if thats how she treats him.What shoul I do?