Karyn - posted on 10/18/2014 ( 4 moms have responded )
Hello Everyone! I'll give you some back story before I begin my question for you. I am the single mommy of an almost 2 year old. I am from Pennsylvania. My ex boyfriend and I split when our son was 2 months old. He cheated on me with a 16 year old girl while he is 22. Then he said he needed to take a break frome when I found out. For 5-6 month he saw my son maybe 2 times. And after that he said he wanted to be involved and we setup for him to see our son every Friday since it was his day off and he did show up the first few times then after that he would show up when he felt like it and when it fit his interest never texting or calling me to cancel when he wouldn't be there. Now he is supposed to see our son Tuesday and Thursdays for a few hours and it is always at a public place. He has a new girlfriend and now wants to take our son alone even though he does not understand he is his father since he is not around very often and when he is he is on his cell phone. Latwly he has been texting me sexual things and says he wants me back again while he is dating her. She tells him it is not fair that he gets no alone time with his son. I have never kept our son from his father when he asks to see him I try to accomadate as best I can. My ex has tried to kill himself on 2 occasions and is constantly playing video games or going to the bar or having drinking parties at his house. He also has weapons like machetes and swords and such he keeps under his bed where our son could easily get access to. He threatens to take me to court for full custody to take our son. What should I do? Do you think he would get full custody? I would like to have him have supervised visits even if its with his family as long as someone else can watch our son as even when I am there he doesn't pay attention to him. Thank you.