What to do when your ex husband keeps nude pics of him and his GF on phone and kids see them?

Kay - posted on 09/08/2013 ( 2 moms have responded )




My ex keeps graphic pics of he and his GF on his phone and after my 11 year old saw them I confronted him about keeping his phone away from the girls I get it accidents happen then y 11 year old came home last month and told me her dad had her let his home wile he was getting ready for work as he was waiting for a call back fromm and she then saw MORE pics these even worse than before with the GF erforming acts on him and herself I was iterate and confronted him and he denied it but then got mad at her for neing nonosey well I thought he had learned until my 8 year old just got back from his home and said she had her dads phone and went into great detail about a entire mew set of nude poses her dad had on the phone also the 8 year old found several of their porns and toys at their house....what do I do??? He always denies and lashes put and never stops I know they aren't making it up this is too much exposure at their age I am worried!


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Ev - posted on 09/08/2013




This is a hard one to answer. But since it seems you have tried a few times to direct his attention to things that are not appropriate on the phone for your kids to be seeing, you may need to seek out a lawyer's advice on this. Those pics are not something the kids need to see. To me that is just as bad as porn the kids found. They do not need to know what adults do behind closed doors. I would then tell him if he does not fix the problem you will drag him back to court over it.

Gena - posted on 09/08/2013




I would tell him to hide the porns and toys away,somewhere where the kids wont see it.As for the phone, he shouldnt let them be near the phone..he knows what he has on there is NOT for children to see or look at.

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