Shelby - posted on 02/09/2013 ( 5 moms have responded )
I have met my fiancee online and we have been going out for nearly a year now. We are planning on meeting up really soon. he lives on the other side of the world. He/ we plan to make this work out and we even already sorted visa plans and wedding dates.
my family haven't met him and at the early stage of our relationship they have been criticizing and judging him. We talk everyday online and other forms of social media. and my family just keeps butting in and making me feel bad about being with him. What do I do for them to understand he is not that bad? **judging meaning- my family doesnt like tattoos and all that and he has some.
he also is straight to the point once someone accuses or judges him he defends himself to the point that my family thinks he is being disrespectful
**He is planning of coming here in a couple of months. he will live with me for the duration of his stay which is bout 3 weeks, and after that i visit him and his family in a couple of months time too. While we get all the visiting back and forth done we will also put together the visa application. We video chat nearly 24/7. if we cant video chat we call each other or text.